Every
family has stories or legends about their ancestors. The family is
descended from an Indian princess or related to someone famous, or
better yet infamous. Our family story has persisted and been repeated
for over 150 years .
My
Dad loved a good laugh and loved to tease us kids. "Why is your
teachers name Mrs. White, her hair is black, her name should be Mrs.
Black?" It seems, and is, silly now but you have no idea how
crazy this made me in the first grade. We kids had a great way, or so
we thought, to tease him back. Shopping in the grocery store we
would hold up a red can of King Oscar Norway sardines. "Hey look
Dad, its grandpa!" This would irritate him so. He was really mad
at my mother for telling us the family "secret". He told us
never to mention it to grandma Lydia because she was ashamed. He told
us that Edvard Julius Abrahamsson was the adoptive father of Lydia's father, Robert Albin. When Edvard Julius Abrahamsson married Charlotta Majholm she was already at that time pregnant with another mans child. That man, said Charlotta, was Oscar Frederik Bernadotte. Robert Albin was truly the illegitimate son of
the King of Sweden, Oscar II.
One
of the first questions I was asked by a second cousin in Sweden who
had just been introduced to me through email was "Tell me the
story of our great grandfather as you heard it". So I told him
the story my father had told me. Claiming Oscar was almost proof of
being related to the family! The ticket, so to say, to the
Abrahamsson clan. One of my cousins collects pictures of Oscar.
Several descendants claimed that an article from one of Oscars
palaces had been a family possession. Oddly, no one knew
where those items are now. Hmmm.
Looking at Oscar (left) and Robert Albin (right) I have to say there is a resemblance. Then again I have a brother in law who you would swear was the twin of Chevy Chase. I looked again at the documentation that I had found on our family. I studied up on Oscar a bit. He did get around with the ladies it seemed. Bottom line was that the story of Oscar did not seem logical to my "get the source and citation" mind of a genealogist. I proudly, and a little arrogantly, presented my theory of non-relationship to a cousin. I sensed by his reply........... he did NOT want to hear that. I had to get over myself and do some serious thinking. After all, I could not prove he was our ancestor but I could not prove he wasn't either.
Looking at Oscar (left) and Robert Albin (right) I have to say there is a resemblance. Then again I have a brother in law who you would swear was the twin of Chevy Chase. I looked again at the documentation that I had found on our family. I studied up on Oscar a bit. He did get around with the ladies it seemed. Bottom line was that the story of Oscar did not seem logical to my "get the source and citation" mind of a genealogist. I proudly, and a little arrogantly, presented my theory of non-relationship to a cousin. I sensed by his reply........... he did NOT want to hear that. I had to get over myself and do some serious thinking. After all, I could not prove he was our ancestor but I could not prove he wasn't either.
Statistically
we should carry about 6.25% DNA from a great x2 grandfather, but human
genetics doesn't work that way. It is also possible that we have no
DNA from a great x2 grandfather. I read on the internet (and we know
of course that everything on the internet is true) that worldwide it
is only 85% certain that your mothers husband was indeed your father.
I have my family tree documented back to the mid 1600's. Do I know
for a fact there were no "non-paternal" events in my
family? Were there no adoptions? And if there were does that
mean that those involved are not a part of my family? Heck no! Every
one of our ancestors has a story, a story that contributed to the greater story of our family, what our family stood for, believed, was, and is
today........what I am.
The
story of the Abrahamsson family includes the story of Oscar. Whether
it is fact or fiction really doesn't matter. What matters is that
we believed it for 150 years and it shaped how we felt about
ourselves. We were a little more special, a little more royal.
Although the descendants of Robert Albins nine children are scattered
across Scandinavia and North America, the story also brought us together
again. Does it really matter anymore if we truly have Oscars DNA or
if we in effect have adopted Oscar? The Story of Oscar II, King of Sweden and Norway, paramour of Charlotta, and father of Robert Albin
which has persisted for 5 and 6 generations is part of the
Abrahamsson family story.
It is part of who we are. And that is the TRUTH.
'There is no king who has not had a slave among his ancestors, and no slave who has not had a king among his."
--- Helen Keller
your cousin, princess
WE ARE ROYAL NO MORE!
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